What is a Holy Relationship?

A Holy Relationship is one in which you join with what is part of you in truth. So when you feel a deep love, a deep respect, a deep peace when you meet another, you are seeing the Christ in that person reflecting the Christ within you.

We come to another with so much baggage. We feel we need to change them, when in fact, what we see, is a projection of ourselves. If we could only say, "Thank You". "I love you so much" for giving me this feedback about myself. The good, the bad and the ugly. If someone says they hate the day they met me, I can say, how sorry I am that they are having a nightmare about me. I check myself for the defects they say I have and if they are true, I will try to change them. If they are not true, then I will bless them and wish them well.

If someone says to me, I love you - you are my perfect dream woman. I will say, I'm happy you are having a good dream, and this dream is about you.

It is never about me, unless I become part of their dream. I dream you, you dream me, and it is all illusion, until we meet in no-time, no-mind, no-past, no-future. And if I want you now, that is wonderful. I may change my mind, and that is good too.

It's all good, it's all God. You are the God in me, I am the God in you. Nameste'.